I’m not the place you can go to run away from all your accountability, I’m not the one who will drown out your self hatred with my adoration. I won’t fix you, and I will get mad when you exchange your integrity for soulless gain. I am more then this absolutely stunningly beautiful physical body…

This is a much needed share, coming from someone who has spent countless hours, years, finances, experiences, on learning the nature of abuse and abusers. I’ve studied under leading world experts on narcissism, read countless books, talked to therapists, soul searched spiritually and followed my gut. This is what i’ve found. From emotional abuse, manipulation,…

Hear me out, throughout the ages and all over cultures, beauty is seen widely differently. I mean strikingly so. In some durations of history, things we think of as downright ugly presently, were redeemed as the highest in beauty standards. So if its something that’s always changing so drastically based on time period, place, culture….

You wanna know what happened to me when I started outting abusers on my Instagram, you wanna know what happened when I finally really called people out for their behavior? When I stopped the disassociated unconditional love and forgiveness and decided to be AUTHENTIC. You wanna know what the defense was? You can probably guess…

I find it baffling the guilt that lives in survivors bodies, as if we are actually the ones carrying our abusers shame. When frankly, they are the ones that should be ashamed. As if enduring injustice is an embarrassment and somehow our fault? It seems so… Infantile. Yet it is such a prevelant subtle and…