a love letter to men

please, know there are some of us waiting for you to collapse into yourself.

understand you are not just a mindless drone worth only of what you can provide.

Its funny huh, how similar at core the pain is of women and men in there strikingly different textures.

hear me, darling one.

Here ME, MAN.

they want you to fight?

then give the real enemy all you’ve got.

let your war cry hold tears, for in there shameless glory is the utmost rebellion against everything that has been stripped of man

please know that part of you that is small, that has needs, that is tender, aching, crying, dancing, and feels fucking ridiculous…

is my favorite part of you

Is what you are searching for in women.

did you know studies show women are happier into old age then men are?

They noticed it was because of how intimate and committed and emotional womens bonds were with female friends still into old age. Where as men, feeling deeply shamed out of the vulnerable desire to connect with other men like this in there gender culture, are less inclined to seek this kind of connection out with other men. And more at risk for extreme shame if they expose themselves in this way.

Because all too often, we shame and belittle men out of any opportunity to become emotionally intelligent and evolved, at very early ages, then, we bully and abuse them for being emotionally under-developed. They abuse each other for it even its so ingrained.

so what I want you to say to this whole fucking system?

“I decide who and what I am, and I decide my value, no-one and nothing does this for me. If I feel sad, I am going to cry, and you can fuck right off with your ridiculous oppressive and fading culture that wants to make me a fucking machine and then punish me for it. No. I vote out. And I decide that I am valuable as a human being.
I am a man, I am not so different from woman, and she’s not so different from me.

And the ways we are, well those are just perfect”

And I want you to go look at Tony Robbins “Date With Destiny” on netflix and watch a man with one of the biggest most textbook “masculine” builds ive ever seen, with hands that make everyone look like ants,

watch how he cries with zero shame. kisses other fully grown men on there foreheads.

watch as he loves with zero guilt, zero reserve, zero pretending he’s cold and removed.

And remember what it means to be a man.

You are not destined for the hollow hell you have been promised will fulfill you and never does.

I love you.

I see you.

I believe in you.